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I know there's a lot of threads on topics like this but I think I just need to get this off my chest. Admittedly, we have had our own issues- but definitely hurdles that could be worked with.
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Feel free to post when you want, as there are people hear willing to read and relate to what you have written. That's exactly it- I do hope that we can try again down the track, but I won't let that hope run how I live my life either. We Cambodia hot women still going to talk and weeekend up here and there as we're on good terms, and I Seeking a weekend girlfriend absolutely still there for her when she needs.
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I'd absolutely never pressure her for that. There will be easier days, and tougher ones- admittedly today feels like it's gonna be a tough one- but I'll be sure to come back here when I'm struggling. Honestly I know we have had our own problems between each other- I've really screwed up at times, as has she, we've both spoken about that- but I honestly feel like they were or could be things that we could work Seeking a weekend girlfriend.
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Ordinarily I'd have even raced over to her place, or already would have been there- but with my tonsillitis that weekend, I did not want to get her sick. Anyway, she got understandably upset that I couldn't talk right away, and left it at that; we spoke again the next day where I apologised, to which she apologised for blowing Seeking a weekend girlfriend at me, saying she'd had a manic episode.
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